So much of life is centered around being independent. Children learn to walk; teens learn to drive. Everyone is running away from dependency, but it's a fruitless endeavor. No matter how hard I try, I am never going to be independent.
I wasn't made to be independent.
I've come to realize I am a strong person, but I am not able to stand on my own. I am always going to be reliant on my God and my family. People weren't made to stand alone. We were made to be companions, to love and be loved.
I give up the struggle to be independent. I give up striving to hold in my feelings and fight my battles alone. I wasn't made to withstand the trials of life by myself.
And there is no shame in help and support. I love to be there for others and offer my love and support, so why shouldn't I expect the same loving care from others? Can't I believe others will love me as I love them?
Jenny this is so wonderful! I am quite thankful that you are opening yourself up like this, and I am even more thankful that I can be here to witness it :) You are such an encouragement! And I am here for you: to listen, give a hug, or whatever helps at the time! Don't forget it :)
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